Which Love Have You Fallen In? (Revised on May 6)

• Article 1: God is distinct. He is Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. God is all good all omnipotent. God is a suffering God for He is self-emptying, other affirming and a community-forming Love.
• Article 2: God has created a very distinct creation, very particular, concrete and asymmetrical; no one will be like anyone else forever. For twins, their minds are distinct and different. For others, their minds could have a percentage of similarity in between with complete different bodies.
• Article 3: In what way your beloved, or lover, is the only possibility to offer you as perfect human love as possible that never vanishes or gets depleted up? Since we are distinct and asymmetrical creatures, God has created only one possible mate for each of us. Does this mean that the mate for a North American could be created in someplace in south far Asia? No! Everyone of us lives in an environment and nursed through a concrete cultural milk. In his or her milieu there is only one possibility that fits as humanly complete as possible. This one is the real one. This kind of love is called The Love. If someone falls in love more than once in one's life and then falls asleep, then there was on true Love among those that possibly existed while all other experiences were mere love cases.
• Resulst:
  (I) What shall we do? We should ask ourselves about them; are they The Love or a love? A "love" is good and lived and experienced and even produced happy life and children. But a "love" cannot be compared to The Love while takes place once in one's whole life. Rarely barely we find people who based their lives and got nourished by The Love which makes the two an inseparable holistic entity; distinct, yet not separated.
  (II) This Love is non-substitutional for God is distinct and created the two mates distinctly. If you go the other normal possible route, it means that you have fallen in place where there is a way out of it for it will never be the inescapable non-exchanged reality which it will look for you amidst other possibilities.
  
• CONCLUSION: I present this analogy about loves and the Love. It is like one glove faced by ten balls coming ahead where all of them are of a size and volume that enable them to rest in the glove comfortably. But we need to keep in mind that the glove is not aware that ten balls in life are coming forward. This gives another reason to say that at times only God foreknows which ball is the perfect ball. All the ten could rest comfortably but only one would fit the glove as humanly-perfect as possible. This leaves humanity in front of a mystery called love for actually it is the ball that enters the glove even forcefully and not the glove searching for the ball. The moment love comes, you cannot but be passive and accept it as a reality in your life; is not it ridiculous for dying person to refuse a healing drug? But how would you react when the Love is the third ball where the first ball rested in your glove ahead of that already? I would say that no one can refuse the normal balls from entering one's glove. Confusing, isn't it? But this is the truth. Love remains love and a poor paralyzed would not refuse to have a wheel chair, which is capable enough to carry him to all over the world experiencing the wonders of life, even that there is a chance for him to get completely healed by the Love which is perfectly capable of carrying him even to heavens; to experience the presence of God Himself in life through It.